Episode 75: Partnering With Yourself While Navigating The Unknown

 
 
 
 
 
 

EPISODE OVERVIEW

My guest this week is Michelle Irving, who combines training with personal experience to offer mentorship and coaching around career and chronic illness. A gifted teacher, and a globally in-demand speaker and writer, Michelle is driven by a mission to de-shame and transform conversations around illness. Drawing upon her extensive training in somatic therapy, cancer survivorship, and women's leadership, her life's work and living legacy are dedicated to helping individuals foster positive self-relationships amidst illness, aiming for lives filled with love, meaningful work, and empowerment.

Together, we explore the complexities of chronic illness and the importance of reframing our relationships with ourselves. We also discuss maintaining hope and connection during life's uncertainties, and Michelle shares her four stages of coping with the unknown. Throughout this thought-provoking episode, we’ll explore acceptance, emotional stages of navigating illness, self-compassion, and resilience. Michelle's wisdom, storytelling, and vulnerability make this episode a must-listen.

“Can I have compassion for myself that I can't have compassion for myself? Yes, I can do that because both things get to be true at once.”
— MICHELLE IRVING

Highlights

  • Embracing uncertainty on the way to empowerment

  • Fostering self-connection during challenges

  • Navigating grief and resilience in life transitions

  • Developing self-trust step by step

  • Prioritizing curiosity over problem-solving

  • Cultivating self-trust with a “future-self” perspective

  • Sustaining hope and connection in life's unpredictability

  • Seeing chronic illness as a journey

  • Practicing self-compassion

  • Understanding emotional stages

  • Balancing career with self-care

LINKS

MICHELLE IRVING

Michelle’s website
Career + Chronic Illness website

Michelle on Facebook: @michelleirvingofficial
Michelle on Instagram: @michelleirvingofficial
Michelle on LinkedIn

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

MICHELLE’S Projects + Offerings

The Pyjama Interviews

Elation: The Ultimate Professional Development Program for People with Chronic Conditions

Queen of the Underworld - 6 whole of life month program for women

Career and Chronic Illness Map

Emotional Map for Chronic Illness

 

 

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Theme Song

“Land Where I Belong”
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