Episode 75: Partnering With Yourself While Navigating The Unknown
EPISODE OVERVIEW
My guest this week is Michelle Irving, who combines training with personal experience to offer mentorship and coaching around career and chronic illness. A gifted teacher, and a globally in-demand speaker and writer, Michelle is driven by a mission to de-shame and transform conversations around illness. Drawing upon her extensive training in somatic therapy, cancer survivorship, and women's leadership, her life's work and living legacy are dedicated to helping individuals foster positive self-relationships amidst illness, aiming for lives filled with love, meaningful work, and empowerment.
Together, we explore the complexities of chronic illness and the importance of reframing our relationships with ourselves. We also discuss maintaining hope and connection during life's uncertainties, and Michelle shares her four stages of coping with the unknown. Throughout this thought-provoking episode, we’ll explore acceptance, emotional stages of navigating illness, self-compassion, and resilience. Michelle's wisdom, storytelling, and vulnerability make this episode a must-listen.
“Can I have compassion for myself that I can't have compassion for myself? Yes, I can do that because both things get to be true at once.”
— MICHELLE IRVING
Highlights
Embracing uncertainty on the way to empowerment
Fostering self-connection during challenges
Navigating grief and resilience in life transitions
Developing self-trust step by step
Prioritizing curiosity over problem-solving
Cultivating self-trust with a “future-self” perspective
Sustaining hope and connection in life's unpredictability
Seeing chronic illness as a journey
Practicing self-compassion
Understanding emotional stages
Balancing career with self-care
LINKS
MICHELLE IRVING
Michelle’s website
Career + Chronic Illness website
Michelle on Facebook: @michelleirvingofficial
Michelle on Instagram: @michelleirvingofficial
Michelle on LinkedIn
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
MICHELLE’S Projects + Offerings
The Pyjama Interviews
Elation: The Ultimate Professional Development Program for People with Chronic Conditions
Queen of the Underworld - 6 whole of life month program for women
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